Is
Something Wrong With Me or Others?
"Judge
not, that you be not judged."
Matthew
7:1
A
member of a monastic order once committed a fault. A council was called to
determine the punishment, but when the monks assembled it was noticed that
Father Joseph was not among them. The superior sent someone to say to him, “Come,
for everyone is waiting for you.” So,
Father Joseph got up and went. He took a leaking jug, filled it with water, and
carried it with him. When the others saw this they asked, “What is this,
father?” The old man said to them, “My sins run out behind me, and I do not see
them, and today I am coming to judge the error of another.”
We
can be so quick to point the finger at others but slow to consider our own
weaknesses. If the truth be told, we are all a little guilty of taking a
magnifying glass to other people’s lives while turning a blind eye to our own.
We judge others by one standard and ourselves by another.
What
was Jesus calling for when He said, “Do not judge?” Did He want us to close our
eyes to error and evil? Should we never address wrong behaviour in another
person because, after all, none of us are perfect?
I
think Jesus was not forbidding us from judging others entirely, but He was
giving the boundaries by which we can judge others properly. The type of
judging Jesus was denouncing is judgement that tries to evaluate the motives of
another person. We are limited to our understanding because all we see are the
outward actions of others, but God is able to discern the inner intentions of a
person’s heart. God alone is able to rightly judge a person’s motivations.
God
does not forbid our judging of wrong and evil actions, but says instead, rather
than looking at others with an eye of condemnation, we should look at others with an eye of restoration.
Jesus is not calling us to blindly accept wrong or evil but, when appropriate,
to benevolently confront those wrongs with grace and leaving the final judgment
in the hands of God.
Judging
is our favourite pastime. We are great at judging the world around us by
standards we would highly resent being held. Judging makes us feel good because
it puts us in a better light than others. So Jesus says our main priority
should always be “How am I living?” not “How are you living?”
Let
us pray – Dear Lord, help us to avoid making snap judgments of others by
prayerfully looking at our own life first and making changes we need to make. Amen.
Jai Ho Achen ji
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